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Why Traditional Behaviour Management Often Fails Neurodivergent Individuals

Kurt King


Organisation:
Owner
Regions:
South East, London, East of England
Notice Period:
Regular (more than one month's notice)
Type:
Professional
Fee:
Paid: £750
Category:
Health
Updated:
12th March 2026

Talk description Many behaviour management strategies used in schools and services were originally designed for general populations and assume that behaviour is primarily a matter of choice, motivation, or compliance. However, these approaches often fail when applied to neurodivergent individuals or those with learning disabilities.

This talk explores why traditional behaviour management techniques can unintentionally increase distress and escalation when used with individuals who experience differences in communication, sensory processing, emotional regulation, or cognitive understanding.

Drawing on practical experience supporting individuals with complex needs, the session examines how behaviour often reflects unmet needs, overload, or difficulty communicating rather than deliberate defiance. The presentation explores how professionals can shift from control based behaviour management to approaches that prioritise understanding, relational safety, and emotional regulation.

Participants will gain insight into how environments, expectations, and communication styles influence behaviour and how small changes in professional practice can significantly reduce distress and crisis situations.

Audience

Teachers Teaching assistants SEND coordinators Care providers Social workers Healthcare professionals Parents and carers

Learning outcomes

Understand why traditional behaviour management may fail for neurodivergent individuals Recognise the role of sensory processing, communication, and emotional regulation in behaviour Identify how professional responses can unintentionally escalate situations Develop more supportive and effective approaches to behaviour support

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About Kurt King

Kurt King is the co founder of Differences Not Disabilities, a UK based organisation providing training, education, and practical support for individuals, families, and professionals working with neurodivergent people and those with learning disabilities.

Kurt trained as a teacher and has extensive frontline experience supporting individuals with complex needs, including severe learning disabilities, trauma histories, and behaviours of distress. His work focuses on understanding behaviour as communication and translating evidence based behavioural models into practical strategies that can be used safely in real world situations.

Through Differences Not Disabilities, Kurt delivers training to parents, schools, and organisations on crisis prevention, de escalation, and behaviour support. His approach emphasises relationship building, trauma informed practice, and restraint reduction, helping professionals respond effectively while maintaining safety, dignity, and ethical practice.

Kurt is currently developing nationally recognised training aligned with the standards of the Restraint Reduction Network and the British Institute of Learning Disabilities. His work aims to bridge the gap between academic research and the realities faced by professionals supporting individuals in distress.

Alongside training and consultancy, Kurt is actively involved in community support initiatives for SEND families, providing education, advocacy, and practical guidance to improve outcomes for individuals and their support networks.


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