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Loving the Enemy - building bridges in a time of war

Andy March


Regions:
West Mids, Warwickshire, Staffordshire, Leicestershire, Derbyshire, Northamptonshire
Notice Period:
Emergency (maybe less than one week's notice)
Type:
Hobby
Fee:
Paid: £50 plus travel costs
Category:
History
Updated:
11th June 2026
Tagged:
World War 2 | Memoir | Germany | Love

Hear a compelling true story of loss, love and reconciliation

Are you looking for an engaging speaker for your group's upcoming program? I am available to present a talk based on my book, Loving the Enemy: building bridges in a time of war. It tells the true and deeply moving story of my grandparents—Englishman Fred Clayton and Rike Büttner-Wobst from Dresden, Germany—who rose above the hatred and enmity of warring nations to build an enduring bridge of love.

My grandfather was a grammar schoolboy from Liverpool and a brilliant Cambridge scholar (a friend and contemporary of Alan Turing). He left the comfort of Cambridge at the beginning of the Nazi era, making a troubled journey to discover first-hand what life was like under the despotic regime. Arriving in Dresden, he developed a friendship with a German family that would change his life forever. The war intervened, but it could not destroy Fred’s determination to maintain the bridges he had built. After surviving deep wartime trauma, he reached out to the family again. My grandmother, who had witnessed the catastrophic bombing of Dresden and survived the humiliation of the Soviet occupation, replied. The extraordinary correspondence that followed brought them both hope, healing, and a shared future.

This is a universal human story of peace, resilience, and reconciliation that resonates deeply with audiences of all backgrounds. My book and the journey to write it have been featured on national German television, BBC 5 Live, The Church Times podcast, Premier Christian Radio, and UCB2.

Talk Logistics & Flexibility I aim to make hosting this presentation as seamless and stress-free for your event organizer as possible:

  • Flexible Timing: The presentation can be tailored to your schedule, comfortably running for 30 minutes or 45 minutes, followed by a Q&A session.
  • Highly Visual & Engaging: The talk is accompanied by a professional PowerPoint presentation featuring rare historical visuals, alongside broadcast audio clips from my various media interviews where I was invited to share this incredible story.
  • Fully Self-Contained: I can bring all of my own projection and audio equipment if your venue doesn't have it set up.
  • Book Signing: I am delighted to bring copies of the book along for a dedicated signing and chat with your members after the presentation.

Would this be the sort of talk your group would be interested in hosting? If so, please get in touch via the form below to discuss dates. I am always happy to work with smaller community groups on tight budgets—please do get in touch to see how we can make it work for your event.

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About Andy March

Andy March is a vicar in Coventry, which has been home for him and his family since 2012. He graduated from University of East Anglia with a degree in English Literature and Creative Writing, he has channelled this passion for storytelling into his work as a vicar, where he seeks to find ways of bringing the Bible narratives to life and communicating them to all ages.

It wasn’t until his grandfather, Fred Clayton, died, that Andy became fully aware of the extraordinary life that he’d led. At his funeral Fred’s brother, George, delivered a moving and passionate eulogy, which had a profound impact. Andy didn’t think much more of his grandparents and their stories until 2014, when he was a Vicar in Coventry. Both Coventry and Dresden had been destroyed by bombing in the Second World War, and there was a strong history of reconciliation between the two cities. In February 2015, on the 70th anniversary of Dresden’s bombing, The Archbishop of Canterbury, the Bishop of Coventry, the Lord Mayor of Coventry, the Dean of Coventry Cathedral, and a number of others made an official trip to Dresden and Andy had the privilege of being part of that group. There he was invited to tell the story of his grandparents, featuring in the Church Times, on radio in the UK (BBC 5 Live), and national German television. Through this he felt he was being given the responsibility to bring their story back to life and through the generosity of the Coventry diocese he was given a sabbatical in which to write Loving the Enemy. Five years on Loving the Enemy was finally published.


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